Look out for the biggest Deadline of your life...!!

Average lifespan is 75 years, that’s 900 months and even in those 900 months, we spend so much time doing things we don’t want to do. We so much time in pleasing people we don’t actually like. We spend our time filling rows of excel sheets or writing thousands of lines on our desks. People are strange, they are constantly angered/triggered by trivial things, but on a major matter totally wasting their lives, they hardly seem to notice. Yes, people are irrational, but so are you. Make your acceptance of human nature as radical as possible.

When we turn 60, our knees feels weak and minds feel slow – all we have is hearts full of regrets. The regrets of the things that we could have done in those 900 months, trips you could have gone on in those 900 months, 900 wishes that could have been fulfilled which are still lingering on in your wish list. 900 ways of showing someone that you loved them dearly all through the days in smiles and in tears.

Ohh God, we keep chasing happiness in things that aren’t even real. We even train our subconscious mind around all these 900 months with mob mentality, cacophony, nickel-and-dime things such as A fancy appartment, or a latest iPhone, Brand new car and thus we actually get so lost in chasing material things that we forget the actual happiness..the real happiness of falling in love, happiness in making someone smile, cheering up a random stranger or the happiness of just sitting with closest buddies in the balcony and talking our hearts out entire night in our Pajamas.

We get so caught up in the life between Monday to Saturday’s or 9 to 6 pm that we forgot to love ourselves on those weary mornings, those uneasy evenings and all times in between too. We get so tired of the schedules, the deadlines, the meetings that we totally ignore the biggest deadline that we are riding on – The deadline of our Life.....Yes we have limited time with us....Every Day is once in a lifetime...!!!!

I don’t know who needs to read this/listen to this but its okay to miss a deadline or two in a while. Its okay to quit, its okay to fall down, its okay to cry those tears and clean our spirits, its okay to love ourselves fully because if we don’t then who will actually…!!!!

We relax on plane even though we don't know the pilot, We relax on ship even though we don't know the Captain, we relax on a bus even though we don't know the driver....Why don't we then relax in life knowing that the Universe/God has everything under control. We make our lives hard by always being in our heads...Life is Simple...get out of your head and get into the moment. Every minute of every day we are ageing, every encounter with others alters and shapes our ideas, we are continuous work in progress never quite the same.

Every man' life ends the same way. it is the only the details of how he/she lived and how he died that distinguishes one from the other......so Learn to forgive, Learn to love better, Learn to live, learn to laugh alone or with your dear ones who have been your pillars because when you are weak and alone at 75, these memories will be the only thing that will give you the strength to Stay Alive until you are gone..!!!!

I recall Khalil Gibran - 

Your living is determined not so much by what life brings to you but by the attitude you bring to your life....not so much by what happens to you but by the way your mind looks at what happens.

 

A Crown, if it hurts us, is not worth wearing..!! 

(Posting Late but better late than never)

Celebration of Women is incomplete without thinking about Beauty (of Soul), Might (of Gut), Independence (of Thoughts), Agelessness (in love), Compassion (to hold & give), Celestial (to bless), Mystical (to empower). You would be thinking that these words are so general as we use them daily but now as you read them here, we all must be holding a deeper meanings for them, for we read it in context to WOMEN. Imagining various figures in our thoughts, our mothers, sisters, wives, daughters, even our co-workers and for all the bachelors your Girlfriends & even your Padosans, on a lighter note..!!  

We as a Women live in a different world, in a different paradise of our own. Our parents, our friends and sometimes we ourselves fail to recognize who we truly are and what our heart desires. We try to seek those answers in different people. We are told to earn, settle down, raise a family,but we seldom told to live, be happy, to seek what is inside us, to chase our dreams. People say that its very difficult to understand a Women, rather I will say we are as simple & as easy like Trignometry….oh please pardon my maths skills…(I even had to google the spelling of Trignometry)

What I want we all to remember (not just on Women’s Day but always) – Not to kill our inner child and bury it behind our mature face.

Introduce yourself to a NEW YOU, all resolutions actually start with treating yourself better. Chase your dreams, laugh out loud, don’t run in the programmed instructions.

It is ironical that we are perpetually trying to fit in when the world measures success via outliners. At some point of life, we should stop fighting with life and Embrace it & love it completely. My dear, God made you Magic so don’t you be blind to it.

Feel Free, awesome and complete in yourself…INFACT YOU ALREADY ARE..!! Unless our kids try to make fun of us saying – Mumma Apko kuch nahi pata how good is Garena Free Fire Game and then you scratch your head thinking what the hell is that and see your kid with an angry grin….to laugh again.

Everything you can really change is limited to you remember big shifts in life starts within you. I believe most Women secretly, sometimes more secretly know that there is infinite potential within them. God made us tender from outside but from inside loaded us with this innate Intuition and Strength, which our daily mundane life makes us unsee in us. We get so caught up in our own ways or we are too scared to acknowledge it even…. But in the deepest core We all know it is there, so UNLEASH it.

Don’t let the days of frustration or fulfillment, comparison or achievement, burden of responsibility or society don’t ever let us forget that we have INFINITY within us.

In whatever age you are in TODAY, you will be the youngest you will ever be. Somehow while relegating all the things we want to do in that certain future, we tend to forget this simple thing – A life fully lived is TODAY fully lived 💖